I have created these two unique therapeutic online coaching programmes – to help you to free yourself from the grip of your toxic parent(s).
As you will see this is a 3 step programme.
STEP 1 – S.H.I.E.L.D. Yourself From Your Toxic Mother.…and
S.H.I.E.L.D. Yourself From Your Toxic Father…
FREE e-booklets (please click on the links to take you to the page you need)
STEP 2 – How To Detox From Your Toxic Mother…and
How To Detox From Your Toxic Father
usual price £3.99 but reduced to only £2.99 if you get it along with your S.H.I.E.L.D. (click on the links to buy it at full price)
STEP 3 – The 3 month online Coaching Programmes called:
(please click on these links OR the images below to find out more)
- Both programmes require us to have a two-hour in person introductory/assessment session – to ensure that this level of working is appropriate and of most benefit to you. Preferably we will meet in person, but if this isn’t possible because of geographical distance then we can use Skype or Zoom.
CLICK ON THE IMAGES BELOW TO FIND OUT MORE ABOUT THE TWO COACHING PROGRAMMES – and how they will change your relationship with your parent …and with yourself!
"It was with some trepidation that I approached Maxine for help with a longstanding problem of emotional and, occasionally, physical abuse from both my parents. I understood why they behaved the way they did but I was unable to mend the terrible wounds of grief and mental unhappiness they had inflicted over 50 years. Worse they had started to abuse my husband and children.
Maxine is warm, kind and welcoming. She helped me to rebuild my damaged inner child and to find new strategies to cope with my parents. I now feel happy and confident. This change has benefitted my family and professional life too.
Whole-heartedly, I recommend Maxine's programme of an initial one to one meeting combined with "Recover from your mother".
Sarah from Sussex
‘ The RFYM method has brought me, above all, peace of mind. For one thing it has shed light to the reasons for my bad feelings and behaviour since being a child, and has helped me to focus on my positive personality traits. By becoming aware of my hurting past as a child, teenager and adult, I’ve got not only much calmer but also empowered, as I have realized it is possible to change my beliefs and my behaviour with the tools in this 8-Module method.
Pouring everything out is always highly beneficial, but the key element here is learning how to re-parent myself – which most of us need to develop. Following the exact instructions of each module and with the aid of Maxine’s Skype sessions, I have been able to create those skills for myself, and I have stopped feeling negative or scared about the many ordinary things that used to bother me. Instead I now immediately turn to the ‘Adult’ me when faced with any kind of emotional challenge.
At first you can see it is not the most pleasant journey, but as soon as you finish every module you have the certainty that the effort was absolutely worth it. I did treasure every module as I felt that each one of them was fixing something inside.
I have no words to express the feeling of being able to be with my mother without wearing a mask any more. Getting rid of my masks not just with her but with other people has been another precious achievement. I am so happy and relieved that I can actually tolerate my mother’s presence and do not feel her to be like ‘my master’ any more. I am not judging her or hating her any more. I feel compassion for her. So I have turned from negative feelings and emotions inside my body to positive ones.
I strongly recommend Maxine Harley’s method if you want to understand yourself, cope with life without emotionally struggling, feel much calmer and optimistic and completely change your views about the relationship with your mother and with the world’ .
Susi from Spain
