Q I’ve been seeing a guy for a few months now and I thought it was going great. We have an amazing sex life and I thought he was ‘the one’.
At the weekend he told me by text that he’s married and won’t be seeing me again. He’s blocked me and won’t reply to my e-mails,’phone calls or texts. It’s like I don’t exist for him any more. I’m so hurt! I want to tell his wife (I’ve found her on Facebook) about us. Do you think I should?
A Ouch that must hurt! Please don’t react from your hurt place but instead try your best to keep the emotion out of your decision.
What would be the real reason for you telling her?
What outcome do you want?
What would you want if you were in her shoes?
Of course this has to be your decision and I know it’s a common dilemma for many women who feel they’ve been used as a ‘bit on the side’ and then discarded by a man. [Read more…]