Q I was abused as a child and now I feel like I can never really get close to anyone. I don’t know if it’s because of the abuse or if it’s just my personality which would be like this anyway. How can I tell? And what can I do about it? I’d like to have some good friends and a long-term relationship but don’t seem to get it right, and people always seem to leave me.
A The part about not knowing if the abuse you suffered has shaped your personality, or if it would have been like this anyway, is a really good question. Sadly it’s one I can’t answer with any certainty. Maybe the closest you can get to [Read more…]