Sort Out Your Children course

Learn from this online course how to be the best parent you can be, and to give your child the best start in life and a happier future.

 

You’ll find plenty of good parenting tips and advice helping you to enjoy positive parenting.

 

How to sort out your children without therapy course
 
 
 
  • Do you fear that you might pass on your own negative moods and worries to your child(ren)? 

 

  • Do you cringe when you hear yourself sounding just like your own mother or father?

 

  • Do you find yourself automatically behaving like your parents – even though you were determined not to?

 

  • Do you over-react and fear losing control and becoming a bad parent?

 

  • Are you worried that you may even be setting up your child to need therapy in the future because of your behaviour?

 

  • Do you now realise that you may need to ‘re-parent’ yourself and your own ‘inner child’ – and to heal your own emotional wounds – so that you can be more emotionally available for your child, and to then be able to put their needs first?
 
 

 

‘Care & Repair From The Inside Out’ (c) … starts with you – right NOW… and all for less than the cost of one counselling session! 

 

If, sadly, you’ve answered ‘yes’ to any of the questions above… then I can tell you that you’re not alone. I would also have answered ‘Yes’ to them all myself several years ago!
 
It took me being so shocked, scared and disappointed by my own emotional over-reacting towards my young daughter, that I became committed to finding a solution. I really didn’t want the results of my own earlier bad experiences in childhood to be passed down to her.
 
The damage had to stop with me… and so I took the long, hard and expensive path to becoming a psychotherapist (Masters Degree 2002).
 
I still make mistakes but they’re nothing like the huge ones I would have made if I’d allowed history to repeat itself.
 
As a psychotherapist, I’ve worked with many parents who either knew or feared that they were inflicting their own emotional traumas onto their innocent child(ren). Others didn’t realise they’d been doing this, and had been blaming the child for their problems.
 
They may have asked me for help with their child’s behaviour, but this inevitably included them having to take an often painful look at their own behaviour and where it had come from.
 
I feel passionately that if we can repair our own emotional wounds, ‘re-parent’ ourselves and be more emotionally available for our children – we’ll be able to give them a much better childhood.
 
 


 

Parenting the next generation is THE most important thing in the world!

 

I have created this online course – and kept it very reasonably priced like all of my e-courses – to reach more people and make a bigger difference in the world… and to see the ‘ripple effect’ of good parenting spread out ever wider.
 
 
This course is definitely for you if…
 
✓ You want to understand what you need to do to become a better parent, step-parent, grand-parent, foster-parent or adoptive parent.
 
 
✓ You want to understand what gets in your way of being a good enough parent and why – and how you   can change that.
 
 
✓ You want to be in control of your thoughts, emotions, language and actions – and be able to pass these positive parenting behaviours down to your children.
 
 
✓ You want to take responsibility for righting the wrongs done to you in the past. (You’re not responsible for what happened to you – but you ARE responsible for ensuring  that it doesn’t affect your children now and in the future.)
 
 
✓ You want to care for, and repair, yourself first – and to share this better version of you with your family.
 
 
✓ You realise that all of these benefits are vitally important, and you care enough about your child(ren) to want to give them the very best you can for their future happiness.
 
 

Children  

I had a crap childhood and although I wanted kids of my own I always wondered if I’d be a good mum to them because my own mum (and dad) were so emotionally abusive to me and my sisters.
We all make mistakes and I know some of mine happened so fast and were just a replay of what my mum and dad used to shout at me.
I feel much more confident and calm now after doing this course. It didn’t take me long to work through and I will keep going back to remind myself of it. It only takes a bit of effort to make a big difference to our kid’s lives. I hope more parents work through your course – that would really make a big difference out there. Thanks to you from me and my kids.


Sandra (Ramsgate, Kent)   

Children  

My boyfriend and I both had stuff from our past that we thought we’d dealt with, but it wasn’t until I got pregnant with our little boy that we realised that loads more stuff was coming up for us which we just didn’t understand.
From doing your course together we both now look at things differently.
I can honestly say that we feel now that we’ll be doing a good job with our son, and any more kids that come along in future. I’m sure we can work together and be like the parents we wish we’d had ourselves.
I think this course would be good for any parents, either expecting or already parents.


Lucy and Matt (London)   
 
 

What this course gives you:-

 

  1. Singing from the same page 
  2. Getting a proper perspective and perception
  3. Creating a secure attachment 
  4. Your own triggers, regressions and replays 
  5. Playing games their way
  6. Expressing emotions 
  7. What if you had a ‘whole-brain’ life?
  8. Lifelong learning… how to calm yourself down… visualisations… positive parenting
  9. MP3 Audio tracks – your important and valuable extra guidance
  10. Appendices – left and right brain child… memory…7 steps to optimum parenting outcomes… family assessment 
 
  • We identify what you need to be doing for the greatest positive impact upon your child
  • We ensure that you and your partner are ‘singing from the same song-sheet’ with your positive parenting styles
  • We look at the triggers that could cause you to over-react and regress into emotions based upon your own past traumas – and how detrimental these can be to your child
  • It shows you how to encourage your children to become both emotionally literate and emotionally intelligent  – giving them, and you, many advantages in life
  • How to establish healthy emotional attachments – which have a ripple effect to all areas of life
  • It shows you how to help yourself and your child(ren) to have a more ‘whole-brained’ life
  • Gives you guidelines to structure and create playful fun with your children
  • You will have three additional MP3 recordings – one to quickly calm you down when you find yourself over-reacting; and two powerful visualisations to help you to heal the wounds of your own inner child and to make the brightest possible future for your family.
   
 
I think you will agree that being the best parent you can be is ‘priceless’ – at least to your child(ren).
 
Are you willing to invest in your own healing and the future of your child or children by getting help now – by instant download?
 
There are no excuses. Parenting the next generation is THE most important thing in the world – and as parents we should all give it our very best shot and do all we can to make it the best it can be… particularly if we haven’t had it so good ourselves in the past.
 
THE GREAT NEWS IS  that this course will help you to become a much better parent, and give your child the best start in life and a happier future … and all for the small investment of  
 

ONLY £37 (or £27 if you need to use the discount code TENOFF)

 

– which includes your MP3 Audio tracks ! 
 

 

 
 

For less than the cost of only one counselling therapy session you could have lifelong access to the guidelines for being the best parent you can be. You can’t put a price on that!

 

 

maxine-harley-bannerMY GUARANTEE TO YOU…
 
You will learn more about yourself, and how to become the best parent you can be, from this online self-help course. The benefits and rewards of your family’s future happiness will be far greater than the short amount of time and money you will have put in.
 
You can now heal your own emotional wounds and stop allowing them to mess up your relationship with your child or children!
 
 

 

 

 

P.S. In case you are still unsure about whether you should re-parent yourself so that you can become a better parent… here’s what some of the experts have to say;

“No one had a ‘perfect childhood’ and some of us had a more challenging experience than others. Yet even those with overwhelmingly difficult past experiences can come to resolve those issues and have meaningful and rewarding relationships with their children. Research has shown the exciting finding that parents who themselves did not have ‘good enough parents’ or even who had traumatic childhoods can make sense of their lives and have healthy relationships. More important for our children than merely what happened to us in the past is the way we have come to process and understand it. The opportunity to change and grow continues to be available throughout our lives.”  (Dr D Siegel and Mary Hartzell 2004)

“When parents learn new skills, they can actually heal themselves in the process of creating a new healthier family. In order to do this we must make the connection to our own childhoods – to the events that have shaped our lives. When we honestly assess and evaluate these events, we are empowered to do better for our children. This process starts with good intentions, but good intentions are not enough. We need to learn from old mistakes – both our own and those of our parents – and refuse to repeat them. Repeat the positive and repair the negative. Plasticity of the brain makes it possible to not pass on disorders and dysfunction from one generation to the next. Plasticity in the brain reveals that you can teach an old dog new tricks – if the dog really wants to learn.” (Dr Louise Hart 2011)

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 Don’t waste any more time – buy this course now. Your children’s future well-being may be at stake.

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